So you want to say your domestic discipline is biblical.. umm NOT

Yesterday my gril @Guccimama wrote a post that discussed the lifestyle known as domestic discipline. After reading a few blogs about it she was prompted to write a post talking about the cases that went beyond a consensual lifestyle choice and went headlong into domestic violence. In the comments an individual was defending her choice of the lifestyle feeling that Gucci was saying all of it was abuse. This was NOT what Gucci was saying. Like many of us she understands there are individuals who chose to live in a SDBM lifestyle. That has limits and safety words. What these women described has none of that.Beatings that last for an hour leaving them with marks and blood is NOT domestic discipline. 
It was also stated in the site she found that this was biblically based in it’s nature. Based upon the passage of the wife being submissive unto the husband. If anyone knows me they know I do not tolerate twisting the Bible to fit your need. So let’s look at the passage they quote shall we??  Yeah I thought we would…Ephesians 5
21Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.  22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
 24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
 25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
 26That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
 27That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
 28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
 29For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
 30For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
 31For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
Now take from that what you will but nowhere does it say that beating them or disciplining them is Godlike. As a matter of fact it states repeatedly that husbands and wives are to HONOR one another as Christ HONORED us through his crucifixion. That we submit ONE TO ANOTHER as ONE FLESH and that what hurts the wife should be as if it was also done unto her spouse. HMMM ain’t that a kick in the teeth to their thinking. It would seem to me that if he was to be disciplining her he himself should face the same discipline since as the HEAD or covering over her when she screws up it means he has screwed up in his job as well. Same scenario that happened in the Garden. When you read the text you see that Adam was standing by as the serpent talked to Eve yet he never opened his mouth. He knew the fruit was bad and he still took it from her. But when push came to shove Adam said ‘oh blame her”  riiighhtttt.
How about you man up and realize a REAL man has no need or desire to ‘discipline’ his spouse, especially when he is to be in submission to her and Jesus as  well as her unto him. Going way beyond a lifestyle of choice this steps into the level of abuse that is unfathomable. Nor would Christ desire any woman to be treated that way.In all reality Jesus surrounded himself with women. Women who the male dominated society had placed a low value on. In biblical times women were considered by the male society as no more then slaves. Despite God pulling them up again and again to show how much he valued them and how we as women represented him as much as a man could. So don’t take you screwed up view of women and pin it on Godly orders cause it ain’t . Period. 
This is not about a consensual act between 2 approving adults, not even close. This is about control and power and rage. This is about a poor excuse of the male species who needs to have his ego boosted and does so through the victimization of a woman who does not have the ability or strength to fight back. This is about self inflated, egotistical male species who feed off the low self esteem of a woman who more then likely has spent her life being abused and dominated to the point she sees no other reason for her existence. So you call it what you want but don’t call it biblical. While I will call it domestic abuse… violence.. little pecker syndrome.. and WRONG.

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